Adult changes

Now I wouldn’t really class myself as a adult…not that I’d class myself as a child either, but I just don’t think I’m responsible enough to be considered as an adult. However saying that since the start of 2017 I have noticed some changes in my behaviour. Mainly in the way I’m choosing to spend my money…

Full disclosure, I live with my parents, I’m still single and I have no children or dependants…other then my cat. But because of this I think part of me is going into some sort of safe mode, in an attempt to prepare for any kind of future I can hope to have. And because my mind is doing this, it means I currently desire to buy as much homeware as I can. You know for my future home which doesn’t current exist…nor do I have the funds to accumulate.

You might be thinking okay yeah but for a girl that’s normal, like who doesn’t like to buy nice smelling candles and fluffy throws and maybe the occasional decorative ornament. But oh no I’m talking about coffee tables, storage systems, vintage lights, heck maybe even a sofa bed. I just can’t control it right now. I see something and I think oh that might be nice in like a living room or a bedroom. Basically I’m being impulsive. It could be worse I guess, I could be just throwing money away…oh well at least I’ll be prepared if I do ever move out.

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Best Fashion Buys Of 2016 So Far…

Ok so this is part two to a blog I did a couple of weeks ago listing the best beauty buys, now were back for my top ten list of best fashion buys so far. So here we go…

IMG_93571.Crop Top’s – This year I’ve come to the realisation that my body doesn’t look as bad as I seemto think,so I’ve decided to be a bit more confident with what I wear so this means getting the dreaded stomach out. These are unbelievably cheap but the quality is amazing. Highly recommend. *£3.99 Zara.*

 

 

IMG_69332. Soft Bra’s – Sometime’s a girl needs more options than just the structured bra’s for one’s ‘possessions’. As the title suggests, these are a soft bra for days when your boobs have just had enough of being restricted. There’s also a variety of colours. *£12.99 (for a pack of two) H&M.*

 

 
IMG_69003. White Converse – A basic necessity for a wardrobe. They’re comfy, they go with pretty much everything, and as an added bonus they’re one of the few items of clothing that
actually looks better dirty. Win win situation. *£45.00 Office.*

 

 

 

IMG_93594. Red Raincoat – I’d been searching for one of these for ages, I needed a light jacket that was rainproof for those amazing rainy summers we get in England. And this is perfect, it’s
light, showerproof and has a sleek shiny look to it. *£19.99 Zara.*

 

 

IMG_69515. Black Lace-up Heels – I’d seen a few people wearing heels like these but I was too tight to buy any for the prices I’d seen, until I found them in Primark. They have a chunky heel, just incase you’re not as confident with heels…especially on a
night out and you can make them as tight or as loose as you want due to the laces. *£15.00 Primark.*

 

IMG_93606.Black Tassel Bag – I found this in the sale, and it’s turned out to be such a great find! It has two main sections, and it can be used as an over the shoulder
bag or even a big clutch bag. It’s now used on a day-to-day basis. *£6 Topshop.*

 

 

IMG_93647. Topshop Jamie Jeans – Who doesn’t own a pair of jeans. At the moment I’m favouring these over any others. They’re high-waisted so it holds in any flab no one wants to know about and so far they don’t seem to lose their shape, even after multiple washes.*£16 (on sale) Topshop.*

 

 

IMG_93588. Taco Shirt – Who doesn’t need a shirt with random stuff on? It’s great for a casual day. It’s simple and basic and I love it.*£5.99 Stradivarius.*

 

 

 

IMG_93619. H&M Watch – I’m a bit of a watch fiend, and for a while I’d been looking for a watch similar to the Casio watches…when I came across this. At first I didn’t expect it to have a
lot of the features that it does due to it being a bit like a dupe of the Casio watches. But after I got it out of its box I was pleasantly surprised, and it’s a bit more unusual due to the pattern on it.*£14.99 H&M.*

 

IMG_936210. Four Leaf Clover Necklace – What kind of girl can resist a sparkly bit of jewellery? Let’s be honest my collection, until I saw this. It’s so pretty and with it being in the shape of a
four leaf clover, part of me hopes it will bring me some
luck!*£8.99 The Gift Company.*

 

That’s all for now, see you in the next one…

Small Changes…

Although I said I wouldn’t be creating a list of new years resolutions, there is a couple of small things I’d like to try to do this year. I won’t class them as resolutions as they will just be on going improvements. Anyway here goes…

  1. Wear heels more – as a small girl I will always need more height, and what better way to solve this than with fancy shoes or boots! Also they of course add to the sex appeal…not.
  2. Not be on my phone as much – in today’s world we as a whole are anti social or ‘zombie-like’ if you will. So I think this is a good way to begin reconnecting with the world again.
  3. Go out more – I’ve never really been a drinker, but I’ve come to the realisation that I’m only young once. Also as the years go on my body won’t react as well with alcohol as it does when your younger…or so I’ve heard.
  4. Sing – I love to sing! Let it be known not very well, but what’s that to stop me. Confidence can pull off anything. Well almost everything.
  5. Save money! – Travelling isn’t cheap, and seen as it’s one of the things I want to do this year…I really need to save money.
  6. Try and find the perfect foundation – this is a constant battle. I hate spending money on something that never matches. They either dry my face out or turn me into a Oompa Loompa and that’s just not a good look!
  7. Use my camera more! – I love taking photos, I even took the time to set up a Facebook page for it…but I just don’t take enough photos. So from now on I’m going to just go on random walks every so often, plus it means I get to see the hidden areas of lovely Yorkshire!
  8. Listen to more music – I like a bit of everything when it comes to music, but it’s quite rare I just put my iPod on anymore. To add to this I’m also going to try to keep up to date with new music because I always seem to be a hundred years behind everyone else and never know new bands names.
  9. Let go – I try not to do this a lot but there just certain things I can’t seem to let go of, so its time. As Elsa says “let it go”
  10. Don’t over think! – This is just a constant battle as a girl. For some reason we all just seem to have a tendency to think way to far into everything so this year, I’m going to aim to just roll with everything and not think as much…we’ll see how that pans out.

LETS DO IT!

My Letter…

Dear Someone,

Having to write a random letter reminds me of the time I had to write letters to my ‘friends’ on animal crossing…even though I knew they didn’t understand english normally. Being set to write a letter with no topic is pretty hard. I never really know what to say. I could update you on how life is going in Natalie World…but to be honest there’s not a lot going on. I’m still single which isn’t really a bad thing, as right now I’m not sure I’m really capable of giving someone else emotional attention (this leads me into thinking I may be becoming a heartless bitch). I still have a cafe job…which isn’t really where I thought I’d be at twenty-two. It’s comfortable and nice, but it’s not really mind-blowing. I still live at home, which again is nice because I like seeing them everyday but at the same time I miss living alone at times. My money situation sucks, I have things to save for, things to pay off, holidays I want to go on, a new car I’d like but nowhere near enough money for any of them. Trying to find another job sucks! Most places won’t take me due to no experience in the area, and I always feel like any jobs that do actually want me are a step in the wrong direction to where I want to be. And on the social side of things most nights I’d rather be in bed watching tv, than going out and getting drunk with friends…like a lot of people my age. I’m just stuck I guess, and maybe set in my ways a bit in other areas. Not very interesting really…anyway until next time friend?

xx

Preparation…

Today is the day.

In the past couple of months I’ve thought a lot about travelling…but in reality it feels like it will never happen. I want to change this so I’ve decided that today is the day I shall start planning where I want to travel, what I’m most interested in seeing and how much money I need to save up. The trip won’t actually be until next summer, but still it’s better to be prepared then leave everything to the last minute…at least with some aspects. The trip will begin in the UK travelling down from my home town and then beginning to travel through and around Europe. So far that’s all I know. I’m sure everything will come together a few months down the line, but until then let’s get planning!

“When all this started, I asked myself, ‘Am I going to withdraw from the world, like most people do, or am I going to live?’ I decided I am going to live-or at least try to live-the way I want, with dignity, with courage, with humor, with composure.” – Mitch Albom.